One of my friends & I have know each other since we were 9-yrs old; we are now 38. We are "cancer friends" – we know we can count on the other in a crisis or so I thought. She recently had a health scare. Ironically, I was the last of her friends to find out. These other friends are parents of her children’s friends; known for 3 yrs max. We both have friends outside of us, but I am shocked to learn accidentally about something so serious when people who have known her for a short time knew. We have always leaned on each other. Nothing has happened, etc. I do like her friends a lot; I’m glad they are buds, but I can not seem to get this hurt out of me. I feel like I lost status with someone who means a lot to me-I have felt tears in my eyes a number of times. I would never bring it up to her; I care for her & I don’t want to turn her scare into a “me” issue. I am though having a hard time coming to terms with losing my cancer friend. Can anyone let me know what you would do?
2007-01-26
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