wants to leave him and live with me at our own place . I dont know if i should since she has a 3t eenagers who probably wouldnt like the idea of there mom being with and living with another women. what should i do???
2007-01-26 18:48:27 · 13 answers · asked by paloma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop the affair NOW.
If she needs to divorce it needs to be because she neeeds to get out of her marriaege. Not to be with you. Othewise you will always be the thorn that broke her up.
Move out asap. Let her figure out who she wants to be with.
Remember in marriage there are promises to love, honor, respect, trust, be faithful to......AND what part of that don't you guys understand? You are part of her breaking her marriage vow.
You will always be the slut in her kids eyes. If she divorces and then starts up with you that is another story.
btw this doesn't mean I approve of girl on girl.
I believe in a commitment. You obvlously believe you can come in and shatter that commitment between two people. shame on you
Back away for now, you area just trouble. Let your friend work her life out.
2007-01-26 18:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better figure it out --the sex isn't always going to be there---she will always have to have time for the kids--before you. You will get tired of waiting----and that's a fact. It seems like a cool idea but the future will be different and you will be sorry you got involved. Better get straight the idea that this affair is wrong and you 2 know it...and if you do this with each other now,,you will probably do it with others later--NOT VERY NICE. It is a lack of respect for yourselves and each other. Rethink all of this and get on with a nice normal life. Good luck
2007-01-27 02:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As adults you have both acted selfishly with not a thought of the children taken into account just to fulfil your own needs.
You both need to sit down and have a damn good talk about this.
2007-01-27 02:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by polynesiachick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think this would be a good relationship. i don't like the sneaking around and the three teenage children. this sounds like it could be a big mess. leave the marriage alone...get out and find a single girlfriend.
2007-01-27 02:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about getting a drama free room mate .
2007-01-27 02:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself, her and her family, including the husband a lot of pain by taking yourself out of the picture. "If you love someone, let them go. If they come back to you, they are yours. If not, it was never meant to be."
2007-01-27 02:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by itry007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out while you can you don't want to be a home wrecker.There are more fish in the sea.
2007-01-27 03:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to eave that alone.. It seems like it coud get real messy
2007-01-27 02:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If looking for trouble you will get it if you decide
to live with her.
2007-01-27 04:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eek! Get out of it while you still can
2007-01-27 02:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by Peaches M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋