before we were married and we agreedthat we would wait a couple years to have "us" time. One night, after spending the evening with his sister and her rambuncious children, he tells me that he could wait another 5 years to have kids. Needless to say, we got into a large discussion about it. He doesn't feel like we're responsible enough to have kids. He feels like we don't do things like we should and are lazy...i.e. get the oil changed in the cars when needed, make dr's appts, etc. I tried to explain to him that ALOT of things change when you have children and you have to learn to adapt and change your lifestyle. I told him that not even the most organized person remembers to make a dentist appt. sometimes! But I don't think he's convinced. Now I may never get to be a mom....and I'm afraid to say that if I had known this before we got married, maybe we wouldn't have....
2007-01-21
16:11:19
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Marriage & Divorce