Friend told me this
And when you are with this new girl and you decide you like her, please ask her for her phone number. If she likes you, she'll give it to you. If she hesitates, stutters, or seems uncomfortable in anyway, you're out! If she does give it to you, call her 5 to 9 days later for 3-5 minutes and ask her out for a Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, or Sunday afternoon the next week.
Why wait 5-9 days, and ask her out for a weekday date? Because you want to be a Challenge (which is so important in maintaining romantic relationships). The whole fact that you already asked her out means you are interested in her already. But please please please don't get mushy and say how much you like her and everything. That is so anti-Challenge. Women are so used to being chased around they want a guy who can say no to them, who won't cater to their every whim, and they want to be able to wonder if you really like them or not. They want you to be mysterious so they can think about you and want to see you more and get to know you.
So, if the new girl accepts, then you are good as long as she doesn't break the date (which in that case, don't listen to her excuses unless its extreme like someone died or she's really sick). If she says she can't make it, then you're out. But if she says she can't make it, but gives you a date and time that she will be available and it's not on the weekend (if it is, give her another counter offer) then you know she likes you. The bottom line is... when girls like you... they help you!
During the date, don't get mushy; lay back and don't give her an iota of information about yourself if you can avoid it. Deflect her questions and make her wonder about the mysterious guy she's with. Always keep it light and funny; no heavy subjects like sex, politics, religion, never tell her if you want to have her baby or you love her so much or she is such a good person blah blah that junk; always be Cary Grant, Conan O'Brian, Robin Williams, Vince Vaughn, and Owen Wilson. This is being a Challenge, being funny makes her think you are Confident, and you not touching her and being mushy on her is Self-Control. I call this the 3 Cs which win women: Control (Self-), Confidence, and Challenge.
2007-01-21
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