see, my bf and i have been together for over 3 years now, and he's is talking about having a baby and he wants to plan on it, but whenever i talk about getting married first , he doesnt wanna do it, he wants to wait for that he says that marriage is a big step,but as far as i know, having a baby is much more important , i just would like to do it step by step, you know first step 1 then 2, i dont wanna jump right on the step 3 . anyways the kind of thinking he has, worries me and scares me, if he doesnt wanna comit to being married, how is he going to comit to being a parent? i mean, his parents were together for 5 years and they had him unexpectedly ,things didnt work out and they got separated when he was 2 years old... does that have anything to do with his way of thinking?
2007-01-19
18:16:24
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