I am friendly and have a lot of friends. But, I hear all of my friends say they went out to lunch or talked to their friends for hours on the phone.
I don't have that. It seems like everyone I know is too busy. Yet they have time for their good friends or best friends.
I invite my friends places, try to help them when they need it, take an interest in their lives, tell them about my life. I don't build myself up in front of them so I don't make them jealous. I always talk about their accomplishments and will mention a few of mine so I give back when I'm with them.
I don't understand why I don't have friends calling me? I keep going on though and inviting friends to lunch, parties... and figure maybe one day it will click.
I do think people like me because I am in groups with them and they alwasy seem to want me to come and invite me to their group and seem happy to see me and talk to me. Just not be their best friend?
I must be doing something wrong?
2007-01-18
00:59:55
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Sarah S
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Psychology