should i tell him?

Question

i tell my ex boyfriend i'm having his baby i'm only 18 and he is 19 ... i tiold when i first got pregnant but him and his family didn't believe me.... i haven't seen him or talked to him ... should i even try it again

Answer 1

yes, let him know for the baby's sake you are going to have his name on the birth certificate, and that you & him should try to get back together, work things out, and make a happy life together.

if not then inform him that you will need financial support when the baby is born.

God bless you & your baby

Answer 2

Yes let him know since he is the father of the child, this only applies when you are sure that he is the one and never slept with someone else. Tell him though he reject you but it will keep oh hauting him but dont abort you still young u might cause a terrible problem to your life time. I know you have pressures at home but be a lady of all seasons no condition is permanent! it will have an end and you will live a happy life with your kid be firm dont give up what your mind tells you if it is positive but I am sorry 4 you.

Answer 3

Of course u should try again. Why should he walk away from the responsibility that the two of u have created. If there is disbelief then u can have a paternity test that is 99% accurate and then there will be no questioning it. Don't take on this huge, life changing event on your own. It's easy for the guy to say it's not mine, and walk away, but the girl can't do that. So if u have to take a parent with u and set up a meeting with his side and present this suggestion, and insist on it. When you prove your side then he needs to step up and take responsibility for this too.

Answer 4

you should send a message to ask him to call you or you just file a child support report to the court directly.

you don't need to deal with him and his drama, and if your baby's father is very inresponsible for the child, then you have to take it to the court to solve it out. it is not about the money, but he has to pay for your child to get a better life, not only you take the responsiblity.

you can't make baby by your own, and you deserve him to treat you adn respect you to keep the baby. if he did not want the baby, he should not have sex with you at the first place. so, don't feel bad about it, and if possible, do talk with social worker, since you sound helpless and confuse. so, please do ask help from plan parenthood and know more option.

have a happy life.

Answer 5

Yes, he is the babies father, and if he doesn't believe you then when the baby is born you can have test done to prove it. Even if he is your ex, you can raise the baby alone, but he should take some responsibility. Done let this slide.

Good Luck and Congrats!!!!!

Answer 6

show them an ultrasound and a praternity test...that'll make them believe,you better take care of this child,with or without him,you are going to have a baby,a life you have to raise,18 yrs. old and with a kid...it's not easy but you are given a blessing.

Answer 7

yes. or if they dont believe you then just wait for nature to take its course. it will soon enough be obvious that a baby is inside you and then they will have no choice but to believe. good luck.

Answer 8

you do have to tell him because it is his child..... but if you see that he is not there now do not depend onhim to be there when the child comes into this world.... unfortunately you may be in this alone...I hope you have a strong family and friends support circle.....good luck and let me know how things turn out.... be strong, you will be a great mom....

Answer 9

It all depends. Do you want him in your life and your baby's? If you do then yes. Especially if you want that finiancial support. If he refuses then you can take him to court for the money.

Answer 10

srry to hear that. it probly wouldnt do ne good to try he will avoid u as much as possible. try to find someone who will help u take care of the kid and take care of u. find someone who will love u.