My son is 24 years old, and he lives with me . I am Ok with that. He recently got out of the military. His girl friend who lives one hour away, has dicided to move , to be close to him.She has accepted a job here, but has made no effort to find a place to stay. I know that she is planning, to come here to my home each night to stay, but I am against it. She is a sweet girl, and I like her very much, but my gut says NO to this.
In the past, she has driven the 60 miles each weekend to stay here.
My son is attending a junior college, and is not working. She is in debt for $30 K+, and works a minimum wage job. She presently is living with her mother and brother.
Am I being selfish, as my son says I am. ? Should I let her move in. ?
As for me, I am 65 years old, divorced 20 years, and retired.
Thank you for your advice.
2007-01-16
04:43:52
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