i married when i was 19, im now 21.me and my husband have a 4 month old baby boy. in our marraige he has being controlling, possesive,has a terrible temper.he made it hell for me throughout my pregnancy,i have felt crushed and trapped.i know i made a mistake.i feel i have changed since i was 19 and this is not the sort of man i would go for now. 'bad boys'.i married too soon and ive tried everything to make it work,gave him chance after chance.he read my diary and goes through all my personal things.even though i have not cheated he accuses me.he does things then throws it back in my face to drill it onto me how 'lucky' i am to have him.im so unhappy.when we argue it has started getting violent on both our parts,i have built up bitterness and pain.he is a great dad and the child never hears any of this.he is fine when things are going his way. the problem,i have met someone else. he is kind, makes me laugh,its a diffrent life when i'm with him.please has someone else been through this
2007-01-15
22:28:14
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