I was adopted. Recently i got in touch with my birth family and we have gotten very close. However, after I was born my mother had four other children, two of whom died in infancy. I would like very much when I visit my birth family to visit the grave sites of my deceased baby brothers and pay my respects, as well as learn more about them and the disease that caused their deaths. I have learned however, through my grandmother, that my mother is very sensative on the topic and feels responsible for the deaths of my brothers (the disease that caused their deaths is hereditary). I would like to talk about my brothers with my mother, who was closest to them, but I need some advice on the best way to approach the topic with my mother, I don't want to hurt anyone or bring back bad memories.
2007-01-13
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