Married for 6 years, 3 kids, 1 from my prev. marriage, 9, 1 from his prev. marriage, 8, and 1 together, 5. I am fit, sexy, lost all baby weight + , worked in fitness, got breast implants b/c I felt my breast looked icky after kids. I am cute and smart (grad degree) and fun. My husband never initiates sex, could go months w/o sex, and never gives me gifts (even on mjr holidays), never plans dates. I caught him looking at online porn 1 yr ago and he is very smiley with hot women but no traces of phone calls/emails/etc. I am not easy to fool. What the ? I am fed up. We used to have hot sex b4 marriage and in the 1st yr of marriage, and do all sorts of crazy dirtiness (w/toys, etc.), but now, he is dead. I used to cry, now I'm just numb. Leaving him would be a struggle b/c I stopped working 1 yr ago b/c of so much going on w/the kids--at his demand. I used to initiate sex, I got tired of being rejected. I also got tired of planning dates, weekends awayw/o sex. I am 33, he is 41.
2007-01-13
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