we talked on the phone and i did o'k ....how should i end the date , how will i know if she wants to see me again ? i don't want to to put her on spot and say we should do this again , or should i tell her to email me if she wants to go out again?
2007-01-13 14:07:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk about her! Ask her about her hobbies and interests, her dreams and desires. Has she traveled much? Does she like to travel? What kind of music does she like? What's her favorite movie?
Learn as much as you can about her and don't forget to compliment her on SOMETHING. Maybe she'll be wearing a nice perfune; maybe she'll look nice; maybe her hair will look extra pretty. It can be anything but be sure to compliment her on something.
If all goes well, yea, at the end of the date you ask for another. How about a movie next Saturday night? Or dinner? Go to an art gallery opening? It can be anything.
2007-01-13 14:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by Spartan Soul 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ask her questions about herself and keep it casual. If it seems like things are going OK over coffee, maybe you can suggest doing something else afterwords or you could mention that you were planning on seeing a movie etc. later in the week and it'd be great if she could join you. Tell her if she's free and would like to go, to give you a call or email. If she's not interested, she has an easy out by saying that she's just too busy and your not putting any pressure on her to answer right away.
You can end the date with a friendly hug or maybe a kiss on the cheek if you think she'd be OK with it. Good Luck!!
2007-01-13 22:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by 5boys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her questions about herself. Girls like to talk about themselves and like a guy who shows an interest in them. Best of all, be yourself. As cheesy as that sounds anyone worth your time will like you for yourself and will appreciate your shyness. I'm in my 30's and met my husband 6 years ago online, I'm very outgoing and can talk to anyone, my husband is very shy. That is one of the things that I found so attractive about him.
For a first date, keep things light and simple, don't give her your life story, or tell her about your last girlfriend, or your financial problems or anything else that might scare her away. Try not to spend the date worrying about whether she likes you or not, just have fun, relax and be yourself. If things work out, great, but if not tomorrow's a new day. Good Luck!
2007-01-13 22:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by nursejen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she smiles at u a lot then she will probably want to see u again. if u definitely want to see her again you should ask her out for another date, the worst she will say is no, which will suck but it won't be the end of the world. don't go for a kiss on the 1st date though, maybe a hug or soemthing like that would be best. hope this helps, good luck!
2007-01-13 22:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by melly73080 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After the date's over strip down to your underwear and do cartwheels and backflips around her yard. That would be the only reasonable thing to do.
2007-01-13 22:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start, so how was your day? take it from there.
If you enjoyed the date, end with a 'lets do this again, when is good with you?
2007-01-13 22:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by fizz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just bring her some flowers or something.
2007-01-13 22:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about something u have in common
2007-01-13 22:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by Elliot M. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋