Also, if you consistently do the same thing that angers, upsets or concerns her, should her reaction/ response change? I mean, how are women to come across as loving and helpful instead of bitchy, controlling, hateful? I don't want to harp on things or bring up the past while responding or reacting to my boyfriend. But he consistently does the same thing over and over again. He expects that his apology is good enough. But to me they are empty words. I just feel that there should be respect in a relationship. And so when he continually repeats the same thing over and over again, I feel like I have no say. And I feel as if he doesn't care about my feelings. I have told him this to no avail. It really is like beating a dead horse. We have a decent relationship except for his addiction (porn). My request is that he not look at it in my home. I don't feel that I have to bend or compromise just to make him happy. If he lived here, I might reconsider to a certain extent. But he does not.
2007-01-06
00:11:23
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