I have been out with this guy several times in the last couple of months. He says he is not seeing anyone else (neither am I), and yes, we have slept together (after waiting a month). Problem is - when I asked if we are dating exclusively and thus boyfriend/girlfriend, he didn't know what to say other than he didn't want to rush things...When I said if neither of us are seeing other people or wanting to, then why wouldn't you want to be bf/gf, he said he didn't have an answer. He also says he's not a player, that I have pretty much everything he is looking for, and that it is not just a friends w/benefits thing (because I told him that I don't want to have sex anymore with someone I am not exclusively dating, and he said that he was fine with that and still wants to see me but will be hard to not want to sleep with me).
I'm really confused, as this guy doesn't seem like he's just using me or is a player, yet I can't help wonder then why wouldn't he want to call me his g/f???
2007-01-06
01:59:16
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