hes name is blaze last year we were friend but i had a crush on him
i think he does not love me but iam to shy to tell him i love him
2007-01-06 02:00:09 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay as somebody older and wiser let me tell you - hold on to your feelings- I honestly wouldnt tell him just yet. wait until you are absolutly sure he feels the same way - if you need to get it off your chest then you should turn to your girls for that - there are 2 things men will do - ALWAYS - either you tell them how you feel and they make u feel ant sized and make you think that they arent interested when they really are - or you dont tell him how you feel but bump into him once in a while and make him want you - I HAVE A TWO WEEK RULE - you can get any man to like you in two weeks - my finance and i have been together for 5 years - when i first met him he liked nmy best friend -but she didnt like him so i took over - little by little every couple of days id e mail him or something and it led to a hang out session and now were getting married - keep your mind open
2007-01-06 02:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by LAUREN M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, even if he did love you back, you wouldn't be able to take the relationship further, unless he really didn't want to keep his job(!). True, finding out a teacher's sexuality is ridiculously difficult, though one of the best ways to get part way there is to ask whether he is married, and if not - why not, the first can be asked publicly, but the second must be privately otherwise there is no chance of him liking you back. Giving him a letter is one of the best ways to tell him that you love him as it saves the embarrassment caused to both of you if he is straight, it also gives him time to think over his response that anything he says doesn't come out wrong. You really should try talking to him properly, then you have a chance to gauge his personality and whether you think you'd be good together. However as you are a teenager are you sure that its love and not a crush or just hormones? That is probably the biggest question that you will have to ask yourself at this time.
2016-05-22 22:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I must say you can't love him. Love is a strong word and you should use it with care. There is a difference between extreme infatuation and love. I know what you feel like though, I used to think I loved people. I know better now. But you sound like you really like him. If you are friends talk to him about it and tell him you really like him and see what his feelings are. If he doesn't return them it may be embarrasing but it is better that waiting and wondering until it is too late to find out what could have been. If he doesn't feel the same way then don't push it and tell him you don't want this to ruin your friendship and if he is a good friend it shouldn't. If you do end up going out don't go too fast or he could take advantage of your infatuaness. And don't say I love you right away that will scare him away. Wait till you REALLY feel it. Good Luck!
2007-01-06 02:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by smileforawile 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have your friend tell him, if you have a guy that knows him that you are friends with get him to tell him. Be serious and tell him to ask the guy if he is not interested to let you know. Trouble with not talking to the horses head is you often get a bum stear or an embarrassing set up situation. Harden up and ask him aside ask him if he would like to hang out for a movie or the beach. If he is off it he will respect your honesty and you can still remain friends, just explain that you like him heaps and you were embarressd but had to find out if he liked you. Confronting someone with your feelings is empowering, you will feel a rush even if you get cut down, thats just because you did something most others cannot. Listen to Shannon and LIFT!!
2007-01-06 02:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, b/c guys HATE shy girls. Deal with it. Change it. Whatever. It's your world, squirrel. And only you can change it. Don't let life (and the bus) pass you by. B4 you know it, he will be married and you guys will have graduated.
GO FOR IT. He ain't a mind reader. Speak up.
2007-01-06 02:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt love you then dont tell him you love him..find a boy that likes you.
2007-01-06 02:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you write a letter because its the best way to express yourself without being afraid to tell him to his face. letters are more romantic anyway. tell him how you feel because you never know... he could be feeling the same way about you.
2007-01-06 02:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by Tarra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go talk to him like if you know his hobbies ask him about those like if he plays football ask him has he got a touchdown yet or just tell your friends to find out more interesting things about him.
2007-01-06 02:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kit kat 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go beat him up
2007-01-06 02:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
silly girl, you don't even know what love is... you shouldn't be throwing that word around aimlessly...
2007-01-06 02:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋