Guy I'm interested in (Steve), who says he's interested in me, isn't making an effort to spend time with me. Keeps asking me to be patient and not give up. Recently had an ex (Kate) with breast cancer contact him for moral support. He dated this gal years ago and she moved away to seek treatment in another city. He dated someone after that (Sharon), but they never went anywhere because he was still hung up on Kate. Two years later, here I am. He says he's not in love with Kate, but feels obligated to support her.
Positive:
- Says he's interested, compliments me, brings me little gifts
- 'Says' he wants to spend time with me
Not so positive:
- Doesn't call me--only IM and phone text
- Hasn't taken me out yet (been 2 mos)
Granted, if someone asked me out right now and i wanted to go out with them, I would. But this has been eating me up inside--esp. with the holidays and all. Part of me wants to just end this, but will I be ruining something potentially great? What should I do?
2006-12-24
02:42:27
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