Okay, I've been noticing alot of women post questions on here about men who play video games too much, or whatever stupid childish addiction they have, and most people say "If he isn't doing anything worse, let him do it." or "Try talking to him in a non-threatening way". Why do we have no right to just get out-right ANGRY when guys do this s*** to us? Why should we have to settle for "At least he DOESN'T (fill in the blank)"? He may not be drinking or cavorting with women, but the things he IS doing are equally damaging to the relationship. Why should we women walk on eggshells and not say anything to him that might upset HIM? We spend so much time on doing our hair, makeup, working 40 hours a week, cleaning, cookin, taking care of kids, etc., and yet we're made to feel as if we shouldn't ask anything in return to make US happy. It's as if we live in the Victorian era, where we have to tend to their happiness and keep our mouths shut about our own suffering. Why is this so?
2006-12-23
02:27:39
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