met up with a guy I dated 14 yrs ago. Newly seperated w a 5 yr old daughter. He thinks if his ex knows he's dating she will cut off contact between him & his child. He gets transfered often for work, and she leaves him every time they get transfered. I feel strongly about our relationship & that we got a second chance, and I don't want to be his little secret. I have grown children, and this is big for me to be open to a 5 yr old in my life. He says he could never trust his ex again, but wants to keep things low until the divorce goes thru. I know I should be true to myself & cut this relationship off, but I'm stuck in the fact that I believe everything happens for a reason, & if we were given a second chance we should take it. I'm trying to be understanding, but my patients are wearing thin. I think he should tell his ex he is seeing someone else if our relationship means anything to him. .....thoughts?????
2006-12-11
18:02:38
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