My wife and I have been through numerous problems and we're both in therapy. She is extremely depressed and blames everything on me. I have made many changes and improvements in my life but she still-after a long period of time- blames me for many of her problems. She recently, after nearly a year of therapy and never taking meds before, started taking Welbutrin but I'm not sure how it is working. She says she's no longer in love with me and doesn't want to be in the marriage anymore but still functions in the marriage as if everything is normal (minus physical intimacy which I understand could be a byproduct of the depression). When we travel, especially to my families house for the holidays, she seems better and much more loving and outgoing towards me. As soon as we return back to our home and home city things change. Back comes the anger and depression. I have offered for us to move but she will not, she says she does not trust me. What can I do to help her and myself?
2006-12-06
02:06:31
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phammond32
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Mental Health