I've been holding off asking this but can't take it any longer. My husband is addicted to chatting with women in chat rooms and doing whatever they ask of him. Some of them also get naked and do whatever he wants them to do. Not as many women do this as men. I could be in the next room trying to sleep but knowing what he is doing on the net prevents that. I will go into the roorm and ask him to shut it down and come to bed. He gets agitated and says in a minute. Most nights he stays up all night and then goes to work. I feel rejected, lonely, second best, and most of all cheated on. On occasion, he will ask if I want to join him and "perform" for someone that wants to watch the two of us have sex. As a way to stay connected to him and spend time with him, I did try it twice. I am not comfortable having sex with my husband knowing that others are watching. I enjoy chat rooms myself but do not take off my clothes for anyone. Cheating or not? What can I do or say to stop it?
2006-11-27
19:50:19
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time4me2fly
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Marriage & Divorce