I found out a few weeks ago that my husband is a sex addict (yes, I did not know for 10 years - he's a programmer and hid is tracks extremely well plus for the first 6 years, he did it at work only). anyways, it was cybersex only (not that I'm excusing his behavior- it was still ALL bad) but I'm going to try to make this work. I have three kids that need stability in his life.
Here's the thing - for the past three years, he's been doing it in MY office (we dont share it - it was mine since I work from home). I'm having a hard time being in the house without thinking about what he did. I am seeing my own therapist (and for someone who wasn't crazy about the thought of therapy - I'm kind of loving it! LOL :) ) But my question is, do we buy another house to start "fresh" (we could do it but it would be stressful and expensive (moving always is) or should I try to change the rooms around, paint, etc.
Has anyone been through this? Some days, I feel like I'm losing my mind.
2006-11-26
01:43:48
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