I have been dating someone for a year, he was a smoker when I met him - a pack a day, in the car (with children), bedroom etc. He has stopped smoking inside. Recently he gave up for a few months, ( had two cigars a day) now smoking half a pack a day again and has gained kilos. The smoking is an issue beause of health but also because he has no money once paid his debts and child support. I am a non smoker ( with one child) but find that the smell makes me feel sick and is a real turn off. I love him and am prepared to have a future despite his weight/lack of money - we get on great in every other way but don't think I can live with the smell of smoke every day for my life!! He has no intention to give up and also I don't want to be controlling - its his body etc, yet I find I want to see him less because of it. Please help, maybe tips from people that are in the same situation...
2006-11-21
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