I have this female friend that i have been close friends with for over 3 years, eventully i became attracted to her and she told me she loves our friendship and does not find me attractive. The problem i was having was getting over her, but i realized it was because my world nearly revolved around her, i also saw that i was not get the mutual treatment as a friend as i treated her. So i would still talk to her , but not run to every event she wantted me to be at and of course kept myself busy with things in life that she may not be able to attend with me. Couple a weeks ago she wantted me to come out with her, but i really did not want to, usually i would just because of her, but i did not this time.... she was upset i guess, and then try to make me jelous... so i think she is upset now... The thing is she is leaving the country for 4 months on Nov. 23rd... and i do not know if i should just suck it up and call her, but keep in mind she has not tried contacting me yet, can you help?
2006-11-08
02:54:06
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