I really like this guy who is friends with my male friends, he told me he's liked since he first met me, but then he's acting really funny. A couple of nights ago we saw each other again and we ended up sleeping in the same bed, which is the third time it happened, we've never had actual sex and he's never pressurized me to although we did do other things, and i took as this as him really liking me and wanting to wait. Or maybe its because he's not interested? Because the next day he was ignoring me and acting all cool and quiet which isn't normal for him, is this because his friends were there? His friends tell me that he really likes me and that he's funny around girls he really likes, and that i should just tell him how i feel, but I'm pretty sure he already knows. Should i call him to ask? What should i say?
2006-11-08 02:54:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok.. thanks for the advice.. but if i call him and ask him what was going on that night, and tell him i really like him without asking him if he likes me, is that ok?
2006-11-08 03:04:14 · update #1
The one thing you shouldn't do, is call and ask how he feels and stuff. Talking about feelings before you're even together its kind of a red flag. Just continue to hang out, just this time start to actually show him how you feel. Make the first move if he isn't going to, and everything will be just fine! Good luck!
2006-11-08 03:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by edu_jr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YAY, A FELLOW SNUGGLESLUT!!
but seriously, maybe he's just really nervous & doesnt know how to make the situation better for himself & you. When this happened to me, I was told that same very thing & I told myself "Naw... Im not going to be played (i thought he was playing me for a fool) & I dont have the time for a childish, shy guy."
well, im 25 now & this "childish, shy guy" ended up moving away, going into the NAVY & is happily married & has 2 beautiful children. I cant help but think to myself... what if?
so, in short, be patient, tell him whats up & if he likes you as much as you like him AND he's not trying to get into your pants when your in the same bed... i'd say youve got a winner & dont let him go. do whatever you can to let him know whats up & on your mind.
2006-11-08 03:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say hes probably just shy maybe and doesnt know how to take it further. You make the move
2006-11-08 02:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Try to find out his affectino for you. Then take your next steps
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2006-11-08 05:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really likes you he wil come around, guys sometimes act really weird when they like a girl
2006-11-08 02:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by kyangel42003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋