My BFF is pregnant and I always hear her say how great their relationship is. He's a nice guy and they're always all "mushy" with each other. She found out she was pregnant a few days ago and is scared to tell him. She feels like the relationship is too weak to introduce a baby into it, she isnt financially stable and she doesnt want a baby. The big thing is they had a "birth control talk" a couple weeks ago and assured him everything was ok since she's on the pill. She SWEARS she took them like she was suposed to and didnt miss any. She thinks he'll feel like she's trying to trap him into the relationship. They've been together for less than 2 months (they're both 22) . Do you think she should include him in the decision or just have the abortion without ever mentioning it to him. I think if she really wants to kill the baby, thats her personal decision- which i disagree with, but she at least tell the guy. What are your thoughts on this and have you ever dealt with anything like this
2006-11-02
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