Is it normal for a couple whos been dating 5 months, that the guy just wont call for 2 or 3 days and then say oh yah, ive been busy or some excuse like that?
2006-11-02 05:05:36 · 20 answers · asked by Freaked out 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends....does he finally call and not mention it...or does he tell you why he hasn't called. I suppose some guys think this is fine and it is...if that's the way it has always been..but if this is something new I would worry..sounds like he's losing interest to me. If you don't say anything about it the days between calls will become more and the times he does it more often. If I were you I would find something else to do..turn the tables on him and let him wonder where you are. It will stop you from worrying about him , you could have some fun,. and maybe meet someone that will appreciate you...this guy sounds like he's trying to control the relationship and seeing just how far he can go........OH and also...guys do NOT always let you know when they want to break up with you...they try to piss you off til you break up with them ..they don't have the cahones...I have this on very good authority...a MAN...lol
2006-11-02 05:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah that is normal, he has a life too live too and you dont need too always try too take the center of his life, especially if you have been together for 5 months. But however, if it starts to that he just strats not calling for a week at a time then you do have a problem going on. But just a couple day, nah no problem, he just needs time to be himself
2006-11-02 13:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by The Red Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh well it depends on a lot of things. How he normally acts, how old he is, how old you are, ec. But for most guys I would say yes. I have never had a bf to call everyday unless they were calling back. Just talk to him about it :D
2006-11-02 13:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Brooke F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be normal. Was there an explaination to what made him so busy? Suspect it is abnormal if this becomes a regular occurance. You might wanna talk to him about what is going on either way.
2006-11-02 13:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by psycho_chic_in_training 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah-don't be so available! Next time he pulls that, either do not call him back(if he leaves a message) or
talk to him briefly-just long enough to say you're busy & will call him back, then don't! Let's see how he likes it.
2006-11-02 13:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by life coach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could be normal but i mean i would be mad like you couldn't of been that busy that you couldn't take a minute out of your day not to call and say hi. but it's normal me and my boyfriend does it all the time and we been together for a year .
2006-11-02 13:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not jump to any conclusions as to why he is not calling. It could be a sign that he is losing interest or he may have a legit reason. Does he have a hectic job? Is he a student? Ask him what's up.
2006-11-02 13:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not ok actually you meant want to see what he was doing caz for a guy to say ''oh i been busy'' yeah busy with some1 or hes lying about something
sorry
and good luck
2006-11-02 13:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. People have things to do. Plus guys like space. Dont be so clingy, guys hate that. Let him breathe.
2006-11-02 13:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do get busy; he would let you know if he were going to break up with you.
2006-11-02 13:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋