Another question to help me get some perspective... my boyfriend of 19 months doesn't do some things that I would want him to. for example, he doesnt rub my back when i need it, or get me flowers or take me out, etc. I've told him that its not about feeling lavished, but just knowing that he's thinking about me and putting effort into showing me that he cares. There are other things about him that are great...its not that hes just a bad guy. So my question is this: is he just a guy like any other guy, who doesnt feel the same romantic things like a girl does? or does he just not get it, so I should find somene who does? I dont want to marry a girl in guys clothing (ie..a man who acts like a girl), but is that what I'm asking if I want a guy to be sweet to my like that? I'm not sure the best way to get across my question, just...is this a normal girl/guy difference thing that is just part of being opposite sexes? or is this something I should worry about?
2006-10-24
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