so i asked how to get my girl to be more freaky some said sexy gifts. i want to get my 20 y/o girlfriend of over two years something sensual but not scary. what's acceptable and what aint: sexy underwear, a toy, she absolutely hates porno and refuses to watch with me, a vibrator, or something else.
2006-10-24 09:50:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you get her gifts like toys and such only to get her in the mood to be a little more freaky... it's a bad idea. All she's going to hear from it is that she isn't doing something right. How about you just talk to her, ask her if she'd like to try something new. Buy a kama sutra book (for yourself) and bring it into the conversation. Let her look through it and ask if she'd mind trying any of the new positions. You aren't going to make her an instant freak in the bed... and she may never be freaky in bed, but this is the best way to go about trying. Kama Sutra is a fun way to spice things up without scaring her for life.
2006-10-24 09:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Really nice lingerie...nothing over the top...modest but sexy, like lace and satin peignoir set. Try a feather wand also...a little caressing touch to get her into experimenting more.
2006-10-24 09:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think gifts is not a good idea. it is kind of pushing your agenda on her through making it seem like a gift, when it is actually more of a demand. you need to talk to her about this. i don't agree that sexy gifts are the answer. i think that's a recipe for trouble.
kind of like me giving my boyfriend an air filter cuz i want him to change the filter in the air conditioner. yuk.
give her gifts of things she already wants. that she likes.
not what you like or want. as far as opening up your lover,
try tantra. try partner yoga. try dancing. try massage.
2006-10-24 09:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋