I have been married for 6.5 years. In the past 2 years, we have had 2 kids. Before the kids, we were happy, but since their births, we have been fighting more, she is very short tempered, and our sex life is terrible. We have sex maybe once per month and it involves me being very persistant (she never initiates anything EVER). On top of that, we are struggling with finances. She is a stay at home mom and with her maternity leave running out, we are left with my salary for everything.
1.) Should I starve our sex life until she initiates it?
2.) Should I start an affair to satisfy my desires?
3.) Should I attribute it to lack of sleep and irritability?
4.) Should I be patient and wait 3 years until we get back on track and pay off our debts?
My fear is that if I start to wander from the relationship, we may divorce and then some John Doe will start raising my beautiful children. I tried talking to her, but she gets frustrated, and doesn't want to talk anymore.
NEED HELP
2006-10-23
04:28:49
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Jim S
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Marriage & Divorce