My fiance and I just started living together, we're getting married next year. But I find it's hard to spend any quality time together because he's always running his family around. He has two older sisters and a brother (between the ages of 46-52) that live at home with his mom. My finance is 42 - all those adults living at home but they call him all the time. Last night, I cooked a very nice dinner and he promised me we would have a nice quiet evening together NO INTERRUPTIONS. Well, right after we ate, his sister calls and said something that made him angry, so now he's in a bad mood, and he's kinda snapping at me. Then when I looked at him strange, he said "I'm sorry I"m kinda upset." His sister calls back and asks him to take her to the store, and he took her! I'm not selfish, I know he is the type of guy that is always helping people and who people call when they need help - but I find it's really throwing a monkey wrench into "our thang." He also has a problem saying No
2006-10-20
02:29:12
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