can you guys tell me what things can we do on how to stop her pregnancy. except an abortion... plz...
2006-10-20 02:28:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Well it's probably too late but the morning after pill would have been a great option or BIRTH CONTROL! Now it looks like putting the baby up for Adoption is the only other option there is! Or you both could grow up not be selfish and raise the baby on your own.
It's a tough decision, and not many people are ever truly ready for a baby. Having a child is a wonderful experience and will change your life forever. But that does not have to be a bad thing! Perhaps having a baby will teach you to grow up, or maybe you have financial reasons for not wanting to keep the child. Whatever your reasons I urge you to consider all your options, and please put having an abortion on the bottom of your list!
Good Luck and Much Love to You and Yours!
2006-10-20 02:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by I Ain't Your Momma 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you guys emotionally not ready or is it financial reasons?
Adoption would be your best bet. Very selfless act, but very hard, and I couldn't imagine going through that. Who knows, once the baby comes, you may just realize it's the best thing that ever happened to you, and you'll wonder why you thought anything otherwise.
Also, if you're hinting around at some kind of "home remedies" to terminate the pregnancy, please don't do it. Think about this, what if your baby survives, and is born with some birth defect from it? Or what if it causes some complication your girlfriend may die from?
2006-10-20 02:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by tikitiki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is pregnant, there isn't anything SAFE you can do other than an abortion. If you haven't talked to your parents about this, it is time do that now.
Questions that need to be answered to help you further would be:
1) How many weeks pregnant?
2) What state do you live in?
3) How old is she?
Laws and availability of abortion vary greatly from state to state. Whether you would need parental permission, or whether there is a place where you could go within 100 miles depends on these questions.
If you just had an "accident" last night, you could still take advantage of the morning after pill, but to make that effective you would have to go TODAY to the pharmacy. She will have to be the one to go in this case.
I beg of you to talk to an adult about this. There are many bad decisions that you can make in this situation. Do not try to "get rid of it" yourselves. This can easily result in the death of your girlfriend.
2006-10-20 02:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dentata 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is already pregnant..thEN YOU and she must face the facts. There is a baby on the way.and you need to take responsibilty. IF you play with fire you will get burnt.. I suppose the first thing you should do is tell your mom and dad if not already. They will wanna kill you but I promise they wont...I went thru this with my daughter and now i have a precious grandbaby that i love dearly
So GROW up .. if you are still in school get an evening job to help support the baby and dont depend on Mom and Dad for every hand out.
There are ways to keep from having babies and you should seach it out if you dont want to bring unwanted babies into this world..
Now that its on the way , you should do what you can to be a dad to the baby .
And the first thing you should do is change that yahoo I.D of yours. Would you want your child to see such a name when it gets old enough to say Daddy what does this mean.??
Maybe you should change it to Daddytobe.
2006-10-20 02:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that can terminate her pregnancy is God....abortions are not safe by any means and i'm no one to tell someone if they should or shouldn't have one...its your choice...but there is always adoption. adoption is great because you are giving this beautiful baby a chance to be someone that you feel you couldn't help them be....there are so many people in the world who can't have children and want them. i dont know how old either of you are...but if she carries the baby to term and then decides she wants to keep it instead of giving it up then there are always ways the government helps with children. those are some things to think about....
2006-10-20 02:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by Krys 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're really not ready for a baby then consider adoption. I know you said you want to stop the pregnancy but let me tell you.....it's a little too late for that
2006-10-20 02:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by italian_sweetness_82 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she has already conceived, there is no safe way to terminate. (abort)
2006-10-20 04:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you aren't ready for a baby, you aren't ready for sex... and you should be married before you have sex.... you should know better!
2006-10-20 03:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋