I am so in love with my husband, and he with me. We have been married for 3 1/2 months. I was with my first husband for 20 years, and never felt anything like this. We like the same things, share the same faith, values, child-rearing ideas, we like the same foods, music, movies, when we make love it is out of this world, we make each other laugh, and we have cried together as well. When it comes to money and material things, though, things get weird. He felt like our house should only be in his name for now, since he was the one who had a down-payment. That was weird. He wants to count the $725 monthly child support that he pays out as a household "bill", but acts weird whenever I spend money on my girls (their dad pays me $400 per week child support). Whenever I bring up money, he gets defensive. His ex screwed him over, and I think that is spilling over into our relationship. He won't go to counseling. Should I go without him? He thinks a counselor will tell me to RUN!
2006-10-18
01:27:12
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Marriage & Divorce