I am in a relationship with a man who has been going thru a long divorce on top of that he has 2 kids 8 and 10..this is a first for me and I am having a hard time with his ex being in the picture so much. we both cant stand her, she wants the kids to hate both of us...I want him to say so many things to her when she starts running her mouth. he on the other hand keeps his mouth shut..he hates it when people are mad at him and he doesn't like confontation...he tries to make everything go as smooth as possible " A Peacemaker" Even when she says things about us that he knows is not true he wont tell her what really happened because he doesn't think she needs to know anything about our lives, he says he hates talking to her so he lets her vent then leaves. which is true, she doesn't need to know , but i dont want her to spread bad things about us to the kids. do you think he is right in the way he handles things and I should keep my opinion to myself...or should i try harder?
2006-10-17
23:02:06
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Marriage & Divorce