Tonight my girlfriend of 2 years didn't want to put out. I didn't act as angry as I felt inside. I made it seem like it wasn't a big deal. But on the inside, I was furious. I didn't want anything to do with her. And I got to thinking "Why am I so angry? I love this girl. I should respect her decision in not wanting to have sex." But I've heard that sometimes young people have a hard time telling the difference between attraction and affection. And I got to thinking, what if I have only been phsically attracted to this girl for 2 years, and her beauty and sexiness has fooled me into thinking that I love her? It sounds very stupid, but why else would I get so angry? I don't want to have those kinds of feelings, so why are they arising? If I don't actually love her then I feel like I will NEVER be able to love anyone, ever! Because I didn't flip out, we ended up messing around anyway... But still... I don't want to be ONLY phsically attracted to this girl!
2006-10-17
16:34:01
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