So I have been having feelings for this guy for the last 3 months, and they have been building, but I saw him yesterday at a concert with a girlfriend whom he was very affectionate with. I no longer feel safe allowing my feelings for him to build, nor do I understand why he didn't tell about his GF before. I think he is partially a private person, but also, it is obvious that he has gone out of the way to leave her out of the picture. Also, I thought that he has been flirting with me, but he also seems to have a bit of guilt, so maybe he is just trying to make everyone happy. I wish I knew the answers to all of these questions and could let go of them, but I don't know if I am really prepared to fold on the game. In a sense, I believe that by just telling him about my feelings when he is clearly not in a space to reciprocate them with any conviction is going to end the game, but also, keeping silent and playing chmaber music with him will prolong the process and uncertainty.
2006-10-07
21:19:32
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calliope
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Singles & Dating