I like a girl, i dont want to like her. Sometimes i just look at her face without even knowing she is there, and she looks at me and i feel like stupid, i dont know how to react. i dont know if too stay looking or to look at another direction. Either option makes me look stupid. Why do i meet her eyes without wanting? WTF?
2006-10-07 21:18:51 · 5 answers · asked by josepep1990 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
What a cool question.
You simply look at her because she's there.
When she's not there do you think of her?
If the answer is "no", then you are simply involved in a moment in time with her and this shall pass.
Each moment you look at her another moment will pass, with the two of you connected as strangers and you don't have to like or know someone to share an experience like this.
Since you’ve already determined the underlying feelings for this girl; which is not to like or be attracted to her, call yourself playing it safe and a smart individual. It’s only eye contact from one person to the other and nothing more.
This kind of thing happens to everyone. Many of the times people act on this strange moment in time by approaching the “strange moment in time.” Most players call it physical attraction although it is often not; where one is not completely honest about how they feel or the attraction is not mutual. The idea of feeling attractive or wanted is then the objective of the beholder, the end result is lust. You could end up getting hurt if you don’t like or want to like someone from the first sight. Continue to trust your instincts, it sounds like you're smart.
If the answer is "yes" you do think of her when she's not there, maybe you need to introduce yourself to get it out of your system.
It might be hard for you to admit that she is mesmerizing or fascinating. Maybe you are soul mates; maybe she is someone you knew in your past life, maybe you are connected in a strange way to help one another. Maybe you are truly attracted to this girl and don’t how to face it. No pun intended. Good luck!
2006-10-07 22:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think Your In Love of the Girl. And u cannot stop thinking about her that makes u look at her.
2006-10-07 22:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by Djkdon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For whatever reason you like this girl. Why don't you want to like her? Eyes say so much, but sometimes talking fills in all the blanks. Try it sometime.
2006-10-07 21:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
human instincts..... primitive and powerful......
just think about something else..... slap urself or something...... or try likeing something else
2006-10-07 21:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by ed-dg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well,wut i say is try and find a better lookin gurl,or ya wut evr,find a new girl!!!!!!
2006-10-07 21:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋