7 years ago I got married. I am 40 my wife is 42, she has been married beofre but it was my first marriage. She seems to use me. 4 years ago she went on a cruise with her parents for 10 days leaving me at home then did it again last year.
Now her dog has died and so she has gone to stay with her parents for two nights. In times or trouble I turn to her but when she is troubled she turns to her parents.
She is using me. She lies to me and has stolen from a shop she wored at and had an official police warning but still I love her. My Aunt died and today I went to help my mum clear her house, on the way back from my Aunts today she calls me to say she is staying with her parents because she hates our house.
I don't know what to do, Are are women like this? I am losing faith in myself, what I have done and my trust in other people - I feel I should walk away but it is hard but she seems to abouse my trust and love. The easiest thing is to stay, the hardest thing is to leave.
2006-10-07
11:04:39
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Rob
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Marriage & Divorce