I used to have a great boyfriend who I was dating for about a year. We were deeply in love with each other. We recently had an unexpected pregnancy and although he was scared about the situation he was going to stay. Now he is telling me he wants to move across the country to New York, pretend he has no child, not pay child support, never visit the baby, and never tell his parents or anyone else. He is getting this crappy advice from his older brother. I am not sure if he will ever do the right thing (which in my opinion is accept his baby), so I am at the point where I want to tell his mother and father (who live in NY). I don't think they can convince him to do the right thing, but I want them to know about their first grandchild so if they'd like to be involved in the child's life they can. I don't like the idea of my baby not having her/his father's family not around because her/his daddy is easily influenced. Should I tell his parents if he won't? And how and when should I do it?
2006-10-07
15:05:07
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Christina K.
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