Before we got married, my husband gave me the impression that he was picky, never was in any serious relationship, just would get to know girls and he just wasnt impressed by any, and i was the only one he ever loved or cared about or even "had a crush on", i never asked him for these things, he just volunteered this information, obviously i was flattered, but it wouldnt have made a difference otherwise. lately iam finding out that these things arent true. he was just saying them to flatter me, which it obviously worked, but i can help but feel that i was duped in a way. Also he has lied about personality traits that he doesnt have..."i dont have a temper", "i dont flirt", "i say what imean and do as i say", "i dont divelge peoples secrets" etc... I know they seem like small things, but i just cant help but feel that alot of what i liked about him isnt true...and also i keep catching him in lies and he keep breaking promises, nothing huge but still....am i over reacting??
2006-10-07
16:31:45
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Pebbles
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Marriage & Divorce