Hi my husband and I just had our first baby together. We both have one child each from previous relationships. My problem is my husband will not get up in the middle of the night to help me. I am extremely exhausted some nights and just need a break and he says no because he has to go to work! We fight over this because in 2 weeks I am going back to work and I work with 8th graders. My job is physically and emotionally draining! Because of the kids I work with. He said It will still be easy for me to wake up because I am moving around all day! But I know I wont deal well because I have no sleep. He says he is this way because I have taken control of our daughter. I asked him how and he said because I have her on a feeding schedual (which he did not do with his daughter he fed her whenever she cried) He wants to feed her ceral and she is 4 weeks old. I follow what her doc tells me to do with her with the food. Am I too controlling or is he the problem?
2006-10-06
00:35:46
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