im 24 years old and i was in a perfect relationship for 2 years with an arab man, i convert to islam and im so happy,suddenly i ask him for marriage and he refused telling me stupid excuses. Now i left him but im trying so hard to forget him. What shall i do????
2006-10-06 00:32:51 · 8 answers · asked by alfa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be glad you didn't marry him and have kids with him. Something is not right in his head.
2006-10-06 00:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the answers u have received above, i guess the answer is clear! dump him! he's just not worth it.. if u cant take this little thing as rejection then, how in the world are u going to face after ur marriage.. he might just marry u and make u a bed slave.. if u really cant forget him, then get into charity.. take some time off and appreciate the finer things in life.. btw, ur age doesnt matter coz a 34 year old would definitely feel the very same thing in ur position.. it't not the age.. it's the rejection of love! tell me i'm wrong !
2006-10-06 01:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by I need a vacation! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a very smart girl. Using your brain after relying on your heart to lead you to your fate.
If marriage is your destination, then follow the path that will lead you to marriage and it obviously won't be with the man you are in love with now. Wait before you start looking, but don't....DON'T fall back into his arms because you may be lonely. It will be harder next time to leave and easier to fall into the previous relationship mistakes.
I know, I was your age once!
2006-10-06 00:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by peppermint_paddy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for you. I know how that feel, it crushing you inside out, that's why so hard to forget. YOu hv loved him 100%. Now u r left only all by yourself. You should hang on,girl. Dun let him get back to you,because he's using you.No other reason how come a man did that to a lady. IT's really sucks. Hang on and try to get back to urself.Be strong. Life is all in your hands now.
2006-10-06 00:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by Aii29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expecting Hindus of India, the entire world is rigid about their religious beliefs. It is better to avoid inter religious proposals from non-hindus as a non-hindu puts forth a pre-condition for the conversion of the would be spouse after marriage. A person who can not relax his religious beliefs on the man made religion, is not fit to carry out his/her love.
2006-10-06 00:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by madurainagpur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be such a sucker next time.
You changed your faith for someone who used you while you were willing to be a doormat, and dropped you like a hot potato when you actually dared to suggest that you might be marriage material. You do the math.
2006-10-06 00:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him and next time find a real man.
2006-10-06 01:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you do? get over it now , you can't stay with a person who does not love you back 100% , right?
2006-10-06 00:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋