I asked a question about a step-child situation, and those who answered did not read the question, but just picked-and-chose what they wanted to focus on. I NEED AN ANSWER. HERE ARE THE FACTS: #1: I date a man with what we can most accurately call a STEP DAUGHTER. he did not father the child, and never married the child's mother. THERE IS NO PACKAGE HERE, just a verbal agreement until the child's mother gets a wild hair up her butt and disallows my boyfriend's relationship with the child. He has no legal recourse...he is nothing to the child legally. #2: They have a "visitation" one day a month, because the child's mother does not know that he and I are moving in together, getting engaged, and then married. Because the man I'm seeing has no tie to the child at all, except by permission of the mother, this will more than likely change when she finds out I'm moving in. I'm hesitant to build a relationship with the child as a result of these two facts. How do I explain to him?
2006-10-05
06:24:03
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