I've been hanging out off-and-on with a guy I care very much about for a year and a half now. But, I've heard rumors that he's hooked up with guys in the past. No one had actually seen him, but heard it from a person who claimed they saw him at a gay bar. I decided to dismiss the rumors because they seemed baseless. As for this guy, he knows how I feel about him. He said liked me but did not want a relationship right now because he was not ready for one (his last gf cheated on him). This by itself would not arouse my suspicions, but I still began to suspect that he is closeted. In the time we have been sort-of dating, he has not made any moves towards me and seems nervous whenever his dating history comes up. He is not a player, and did not date before me. Also, he doesn't really like pr0n or strip clubs. He's a "regular" working-class guy, and def. not a metrosexual. I get nervous sometimes and have my doubts. Would it be insulting to ask if the rumors are true? Or is he just awkward?
2006-10-02
18:28:23
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youthbeautybrigade
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