2006-10-02 18:27:39 · 15 answers · asked by Mos 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
of course it is not cheating. any fantasies you may have while pleasuring yourself ARE NOT REAL. therefore, since you are ALONE, you are not cheating. last time i checked, cheating required a second participant. only someone pathetically insecure would consider it cheating.
2006-10-02 20:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by shootergrrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not cheating. In every relationship, there are times (sometimes long times) when one person is dissatisfied, or remembering the past thru rose-tinted glasses. There is so much more to being a mate than sex. However, do try to honor your mate by focusing on him/her when you're actually making love - eventually you may not need to think about that other person as often. Good communication about what you like and dislike about making love may surprise you satisfactorily. If you're a reader of women's historical romances, you'd be surprised at the love scenes, and women you might even know who imagine themselves in them!
2006-10-03 01:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Casperia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion yes it is cheating if you think of someone else that is lusting or wanting that other person which means you have feelings for another person.
But also it is like a man jacking off to a porn or magazine ppl do what feels good. but the thing about thinking about someone else during masturbating is just like cheating to me or keeping a secret with men they just jack off to be playing with it
2006-10-03 01:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you consider your mate cheating if he/she does the same thing? Why or why not?
2006-10-03 01:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by baraaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In away it is because its a wish and the old saying goes; "Careful what you wish for". You could get yourself in a heap of trouble
2006-10-03 01:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by LVieau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope; if they wanted you thinking about them, they would be there to lend a helping hand. Or mouth. Or other warm moist hole.
2006-10-03 01:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doing that prevents actual cheating
2006-10-03 01:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
2006-10-03 01:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no fantasies are a good thing as long as the heart knows wher it belongs
2006-10-03 01:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope not or my hubby would divorce me ;-)
Smooches to Joquin Pheonix
2006-10-03 01:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jaded_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋