My guy-friend is going through a divorce (separated 7 months). He has a lot on his plate with his kids, work & school. He knows that I am interested in him, however, I am willing to wait and when he is ready - we have agreed to go on a date.
Sometimes, he has a hard time opening up to me. I understand. Once he does tell me something that is bothering him, we are able to calmly talk about it. I can sense his relief. He says his ex would usually scream & yell when it came to him talking about how he feels. I am not that type of person.
I know I have to be patient. Anytime I have asked him where I stand he is always quick to say "We are JUST friends..." which...ya know, okay, that's fine. But I can't help but think he might feel more and is just scared. So, I stopped asking.
Anyway, to my question, I have never been through a divorce nor do I have children, do you guys think that if I continue to be understanding when it comes to his concerns that he will be more willing to open up to me?
2006-10-02
10:06:35
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Mintygoodness1
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Marriage & Divorce