I think that we allow people to treat us a certain way. Wether its our parents, friends, or signicant other. We give our power of ourselves to others. This is not good. You must have control of y that, so when you get treated badly, used, or hurt over and over again by someone you care for it realy hurts you as a person. Makes you not feel valued as a person. You need to ask yourself why you let this person walk all over you. Because there is some reason for it. You also need to ask yourself what is it that you are getting out of the situation because you are getting attention maybe negative attenion but its attention. I think that setting boundaries is really import. It not only helps you but it teaches others how the can and can't treat up. You can't fix what you don't acknowledge and most of all, you only can change yourself you cannot change other people. The only power we have is controlling ourselves. WE are powerless agains people, places, and things. Your thought.
2006-09-23
19:22:18
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