I got a girl's phone number?

Question

I'm in college and i got a couple of girls' phone numbers at some parties. The question is, should I actually bother to call them because I think they might have been drunk when they gave their numbers to me, or should I just let them pass? I don't want to call and it be completely awkward if they don't remember me! I've never actually been completely drunk before, so how much do people actually remember the next day? I know its probably a lot of questions, but serious answers would be a big help.

side note...i just got out of a 1 year relationship with my girlfriend, and I'm trying to get back into the game. i don't know if it really matters, but just thought i'd throw it out there!

Answer 1

You should give them a call.

Honestly, what's the worst that can happen? Maybe a horrible rumour will start flowing across campus that some creepy guy is gonna call any girl who give's them his number... and then no guys would have any girl's number! OH NO! No girl will ever speak to you ever again!

Seriously though, you should understand these girls may not be the loves of your life, but they could happen to turn into worthwhile friendships.

Start with some small talk ... listen to what they say... ask them some open ended questions where they can keep on talking. You could start by asking how they liked the parties and then follow up with finding out whether or not anything interesting happened. Don't forget to invest your 2 cents into the conversation as well. Even if they don't remember the night before ... you can move on to something a little more general like what they're studying and so forth.

Next thing you know, you'll be setting up a time to grab a bite to eat, or whatever your cup of tea is. Again, not necessarily the love of your life, but a worthwhile friendship to share some experiences. It's also a good way of healing that broken heart.

Answer 2

I wouldn't call them until you bump into them atleast once more. There is a slight chance that if they were drunk they wouldn't even remember your face, or that they gave you their number.

Second thing is you actually should have some interest in hanging out with them.

Girls talk, and you do not want to be the creepy guy who calls them just because you have their number. If you have an actual reason, like you have a class together and you can construct some witty homework question then maybe it would be ok.

Girls often don't want to be mean or rude, and a lot of times give their number to people they don't neccessarily want to call. It is much less awkward if you "bump" into eachother.

Answer 3

Hmm..this might be a bit tricky. If you can, try meeting them somewhere or sometime and try to get to know and remember each other better. You should probably do this with all of them, just incase. But make sure they don't have a boyfriend - if they do, things WILL get ugly. If anyone knows why you're gone while doing this, just simply say you're trying to help out some new friends. If neccessary, you can add that it was because thatthey weren't really sure if they had remembered each other. Be careful on how you say this, for she might get suspicious. That's all I have for now.

Answer 4

The question is...do you think they were totally wasted? And if so how appealing is that to you? What could it hurt if you call them? If they don't remember you, no harm no foul. I think they will probably remember you and are interested. You sound like a nice guy. If anything, it can be good practice to get out there again. Good luck.

Answer 5

Have a little more confidence in yourself and call the girls! Chances are, they'll remember you. If not, ask them out anyway! What's the harm, exactly? If they say no, you don't lose out on anything...you're still where you are now. You've got nothing to lose! Pick up the phone and dial away!

Answer 6

wow... this a tough one. they may have been drunk and dont remember. or they may be at home waiting for you to call.....

chances are you will see these girls again at another party. So if your nervous, hold off and wait to see them again at another party.

if you do want to call them wait a couple days..... when calliing dont expect anything to come of it ok. just have to wait and see ok.... dont go into it thinking your going to get a date....

oh you could say hi this is so and so.... that was some fun party the other night..... you gave me your phone number and told me to call you..... so I am calling to say hi....if the conversation is going well you can aske her out for coffee or something. you can tell by her voice if she is interested.

Answer 7

are the girls u meet at parties and give u random #s the kinda girl u want a relationship with? no way man, those are hump and dump girls. go find a real girl. ya know. well. scratch that. you can meet some ok girls at a party, but like... u just got outa a relationship. go out there and have a ton of sex!! haha. you have the rest of ur life to find ur soul mate. go out there and screw around with someone elses!

Answer 8

did u like them
cuz if you do then give it a try and if they don't remember than say "u were probably to drunk to remember and i just was checking if u did want me to call u"

Answer 9

well if it was at a party then they were prob drunk and dnt remember.some do some dnt.it depends on the person. think bk. were the girls slutty if they were dnt call em every guy in ur yr prob has their numbers

Answer 10

depends on how intrested you are in being around them... if yes just call and be casual.. dont get to worked out abt them getting drunk... dont worry.. just call.. or message if u feel uncomfortable calling that way you will see what response you get without really facing the.. no reply=not intrested..