me and my boyfriend got into a fight about my ex boyfriend on what all happened which really wasnt all that bad you know.. just had sex a couple of times and now his is all getting upset about it.. cuz i wanted to talk to his cousin about his ex girlfriend or what ever and now... his brother is helping/telling him what i can and cant do and i am really... pissed about this.. i need your guys help
2006-09-23 19:22:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've just had sex with the ex a couple times WHILE you're with the new boyfriend? If so, just having sex is a little different than just having feelings, wouldn't you say?
I was with my ex for a loooong time... I still think of him, still have a part of me that will always love him, still wonder how he's getting along in the world. but I'd never dream of just having sex a time or 2 with him again.
2006-09-23 19:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Chrome Toaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 'only' had sex with your ex? That would be cheating and worth dumping you on the spot. If you just remember your ex in a positive way but are not interested anymore, that's no problem. Your boyfriend and his brother should never tell you what to do and what not (besides the logical "don't cheat or mess around in anyway"). You're not a animal or piece of property.
2006-09-23 19:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex with your ex while dating your now-boyfriend, then that is way wrong, girl!
If you just think about you ex every now and then it is normal. I still think about my ex. I would never go out with him again but every now and then I miss him/the times we had together. Just hang in there...you will get over it eventually!
2006-09-23 19:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand why your bf got mad. You actualized your feelings for you ex-boyfriend and didn't give it a passing thought about how your current bf would feel. He is setting limitations on what he wants and does not want. If you hadn't screwed around with your ex-boyfriend, he probably would not be setting up these limitations with you.
2006-09-23 19:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot be that dumb. YOU go whoring and telling, and expect the next guy down the line to not get upset when you go gossiping about how amorral you are... You really need to have a long talk with Jesus.
2006-09-23 19:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by mr.phattphatt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your past is your past, you can't change that. but if you still have feelings for your ex you need to figure that out before you really move on. we never forget our ex's and there will always be feelings there, but if it's more than feelings you should deal with that first. it's not fair to your bf now. good luck!
2006-09-23 19:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by Zoey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are messed up in sex and relations of friends. Try to come out from that
2006-09-23 19:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i hate this trio relations. be the girl is right or faulty. but never do this mistake of ditching anyone at his back. try my funda out. it will be troublesome and harmful but say ur true feelings to both the person. the one who lets u go is ur true love, UNDOUBTEDLY!
good luck!!
2006-09-23 19:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll get over it ~ the make up sex is the best !
2006-09-23 19:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's mentally cheating
2006-09-23 19:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by Gossip81 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋