I am disgusted with myself for not being able to make a decision regarding my husband. After 18 years of marriage and 19 years together he has moved out. I discovered he was having an affair last year, I don't know if he is still seeing her. He now comes back to the house every weekend. He says that there was a lot of harm done to our marriage and we have to start again. As far as he is concerned we are still married, we are just having time out because he needs to sort out his head as he has been under a lot of stress. He now treats me well, takes me out, telephones every evening to see how we are, we have a daughter of 16. Tomorrow we are going on holiday, just the 2 of us, something we have never done before. Everyone tells me to drop him because if he cheated once he will do it again, that he only comes to the house to keep an eye on everything because he owns half of it and that I will be hurt. I am afraid of this, but why don't I put a stop to this? Am I a wimp?
2006-09-22
00:52:52
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Marriage & Divorce