2006-09-22 00:53:12 · 15 answers · asked by soulman2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A nice long weekend with nothing but sleeping, eating, talking, and loving (bring some wine...helps with at least three of those). Remind each other why you are in love and used to be so hot for each other.
2006-09-22 00:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every long term relationship goes through ups and downs. It's like driving down a long highway the road always has twists and turns...We had a "dry spell" when our children were very young and we were working 50+ hours a week each. You just get so caught up in life....diapers, dishes, laundry, work, home repairs, meetings, church, family, school....and the list goes on and on. This is the time when you need to take a break and look at what you are doing and how you can cut back to take some time with each other. Buy her a card and leave it on her pillow if you leave first in the morning. Leave a flower on her car seat...plan a surprise night out alone....KISS HER with as much emotion as you can as often as you can without pushing for sex. Let her know that you love her. Remember that a woman needs to feel sexy to be sexy. Maybe she feels tired and ugly and just UCK. Even if she is the most beautiful woman in the world she could feel ugly and that will end anything quickly....Good luck
2006-09-22 01:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dry spells can be an awesome thing. A dry spell allows you to view your lover as a person again, it allows time for the core relationship to renew, like when you first started dating. A wise man will use a dry spell to rediscover what he thought was right about being with his lady all over again. And it allows for anticipation, your mind goes over how it feels to be intimate with your lover, and you begin to crave the intimacy. I love anticipating the next time my man and I make love. Every day is exciting because I know that sooner or later the spell will end and then.......oh, yeah...................
2006-09-22 01:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there.
Do something out of character. Meaning anything from taking a trip to the porn store or taking a ballroom dance class together. Stagnance in life calls for something to shake it up. Think of throwing a stone into a perfectly still pond. Point is, do something BIG.
2006-09-22 01:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not really enough information, if it is you..are you bored with her, is she unattractive or gotten fat, if so move on, find another who does it for you, if it is you that cannot perform, take viagra break the spell and start over, if it is her, well she is probably seeing someone else for the real 'seeing too' she needs, remember the Hungry must be fed. If you dont someone else will.
2006-09-22 00:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure but it didn't need a cure...just needed to de-stress or get caught up on some sleep. Usually has something to do with stress levels. Somthing on minds.
2006-09-22 00:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean a dry spell ?and if thats whats going on in your relationship then use some k y gel
2006-09-22 00:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Stress and other things in life can effect the sex drive. You just need to work through it. And no pressure.
2006-09-22 00:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure have, It happens to just about everybody. Just try to spice things up a bit. Do different things that you only thought about. It works, trust me.
2006-09-22 01:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by ceecee_41004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! And you talk about it!
Maybe you're both neglecting each other!
It happens... don't despair!
Try a holiday or break the routine with a suprise dinner or something! : )
2006-09-22 01:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋